Deciding whether to tell your partner about wanting an abortion can be a tough and personal choice. You don’t have to inform your partner—it’s entirely your decision. 

However, there are reasons you might want to share this with them, like seeking emotional support, discussing your relationship, or simply not wanting to face this alone. We’ll look at your independence in making this decision and ways of involving your partner.

Regardless of your decision, you don’t have to navigate this alone. A Pregnancy Center and Clinic is here to walk with you, providing critical pregnancy services and support. Visit us for free and confidential resources. 

Concerning Your Safety

Are you concerned about breaking the news because your partner has a history of abuse?  Even if you’re simply worried their reaction may become violent, the first thing you should do is contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline for 24/7 help. 

Recognize that these circumstances are unacceptable, and your safety should be your highest priority. 

Opening Up A Dialogue

There are a few simple steps you can take to prepare for when and how to talk about your pregnancy:

1. Take the time to review what you need to know about abortion, but also look into your other options, such as adoption and parenting. 
2. Choose a time when stress levels are low, and your partner isn’t concerned about other obligations or work.
3. Pick a comfortable setting for your partner where you’re unlikely to be worried about interruptions.

The Conversation

There’s certainly a lot to discuss, but here are some simple and important topics to talk about with your partner to help both of you navigate this challenging time:

• How can you support each other practically and emotionally?
• Are there any fears or concerns you both might have?
• What impact this will have on your current lifestyle and future plans?
• How might this decision affect your relationship?

Remember to try to communicate your feelings while actively listening to your partner’s concerns as well. 

Talk With Us

The choice to disclose your pregnancy decision with your partner is yours to make. However, getting informed and details about your pregnancy is a critical first step you should take before you move forward with an abortion.

A Pregnancy Center and Clinic can help you get this information so you can make a decision you can feel confident about. We also offer free pregnancy services that will unlock which options are available to you.

Reach out to us for support today.